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Originally Posted by girlgun

you're always desperate to have the last word. even if it's lame.

go on with your bad self?

i'm not always desperate to have the last word. i may SEEM always desparate TO YOU or your minions. but there's a difference. IMO (i just barfed a little there.)

anyway. have the last word. have it. go ahead.

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Originally Posted by girlgun

:) :)

whatever happened to this guy? i thought he was pretty cool.

...i mean the guy on the right... but come to think of it, whatever did happen to the guy on the left? i thought he was kind of cool....

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Originally Posted by m1rr0r dash

but come to think of it, whatever did happen to the guy on the left? i thought he was kind of cool....

yr pumping yr fist going woof woof woof right now, aren't you, dog?

you disgust me.

"All the friends I ever had are gone..."

Good song.

Anyway, I don't have any friends either.

Which makes the whole alcoholism thing a whole lot easier.

No one to bitch at me.

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Originally Posted by !@#$%!

look children, this is how it works.

first, the sorrow of many is consolation only to fools (translating spanish saying here-- mal de muchos, consuelo de tontos-- how do you say that?)

but really, life goes this way:

when you're a teenager and in your early 20s, you think your friends are like blood brothers 4evarr etc etc.

but then everyone get their girlfriend/gayfriend/wife/husband/partner & they become so occupied with relationship/family life that friends recede to the background.

now people can keep and build new friendships after becoming domesticated, but it's rarer than before. friendship takes time and work and when the majority of your energy goes elsewhere well duh.

this of course does not mean the end of your social life.

the wife and i see friends every week-- some are hers, some are mine, some are common. but they are not BLOOD BRUTHAS 4EVARRRR. it's a more quiet thing.

and really, as much as i like hanging out here, internet friends can't help you move house.

as for the "best friend" title, i've moved around so much that it's hard to keep those frienships; and then time passes and your highschool friend and you have little in common--oh yeah garden state didn't "discover"that. but anyway. friendships mutate. sometimes you're friend with someone for years and they turn into assholes and you gotta say bye. sometimes you change & everything around you changes. that's life.

now as for my unrequested advice to fénix: find a new house without rabbit shit where you can actually have people over & entertain them in a civilized manner, have dinner parties, orgies, what have you-- shit free of course.

that'll be $50. thanks.

Good points man.

character guy seems logical to some people's lives, but def not others. Everyone's paths are different. you know?

I never want to have a dinner party in my life.

I've had people over for food. and things. wine sushi music alcohol drugs whathave you.

but no dinner parties. no no.

for the record... i actually agree with most of what crazy cymbol guy says, i just wanted to post that.:)

studies have been done, repeatedly showing that most people cycle through the same set of about 100 friends/acquaintances in their entire life.

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Originally Posted by m1rr0r dash

for the record... i actually agree with most of what crazy cymbol guy says, i just wanted to post that.:)

you mean the especially when i say i speak the holy motherfucking truth of the ages, for ever and ever, amen, right? right??? right????

--

& to avoid confusion: :D

it wasn't necessarily the advice you gave (this time)... i was just cracking on the fact you're constantly giving advice and playing the role of "psychologist". i'm sorry. i must've hit a nerve, dr. freud.

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Originally Posted by girlgun

Isn't Freud not important anymore? If so, you are just callling !@#$%! a hack. :p

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Originally Posted by ✌➬

Isn't Freud not important anymore? If so, you are just callling !@#$%! a hack. :p

haha yep.

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Originally Posted by phoenix

ha ha, come on, "dinner parties" mean just having people over for the purpose of food and drink. one of the basic pleasures of life. doesn't have to be a stuffy situation with engraved invitations or something.

anyway, best wishes whatever you do.

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Originally Posted by girlgun

you just want to be that person, is all, that is all, you just want to be that person.

jeeeaaaaaalous....

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Originally Posted by !@#$%!

you just want to be that person, is all, that is all, you just want to be that person.

jeeeaaaaaalous....

Err ive got the goods, but also the good sense to not regurgitate what is essentially bullshit.

Peace brotha. Keep your feet on the ground and keep reaching for the stars.

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Originally Posted by girlgun

Err ive got the goods, but also the good sense to not regurgitate what is essentially bullshit.

Peace brotha. Keep your feet on the ground and keep reaching for the stars.

hm yeah hm yeah hm yeah

youre full of whiskey

jeeaaaaalous.

you've got the penis envies :D