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jon boy 05.14.2008 06:10 AM

have you ever been unfaithful?
 
have you? or have you been on the other end?

█████████ 05.14.2008 06:28 AM

sexually? no.

Toilet & Bowels 05.14.2008 06:39 AM

i've never cheated on anyone, or been cheated on. when i was about 16 or 17 though i was getting portions off my "friend's" girlfriend

sarramkrop 05.14.2008 06:52 AM

Never in a relationship. I've been cheated on once, like a thread I've started on here can testify, but it wasn't a serious thing anyway.

PAULYBEE2656 05.14.2008 06:56 AM

never been unfaithful to my wife. and i have been married 9 years and went out with her since 1990.

jon boy 05.14.2008 07:34 AM

probably when i was a kid but since i only went out with people for a few weeks at a time, as it goes when your that age i dont know if it counts?

Cantankerous 05.14.2008 08:18 AM

i was quite the slut in my formative years but for almost the last four years, no.

█████████ 05.14.2008 08:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Cantankerous
i was quite the slut in my formative years but for almost the last four years, no.

you're fucking up your story.
you're supposed to be 18, remember?

Cantankerous 05.14.2008 08:47 AM

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Originally Posted by █████████
you're fucking up your story.
you're supposed to be 18, remember?

what story? i am.
by my formative years i mean when i was like 13-14 or so.

floatingslowly 05.14.2008 09:03 AM

all I have in this world is mah balls and mah word....and I don't break them for no one.

demonrail666 05.14.2008 09:04 AM

Yes to both.

sarramkrop 05.14.2008 09:06 AM

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Originally Posted by floatingslowly
all I have in this world is mah balls and mah word....and I don't break them for no one.


Yes to both.

Rob Instigator 05.14.2008 09:12 AM

nope.

!@#$%! 05.14.2008 09:35 AM

monogamy is hard

Rob Instigator 05.14.2008 09:50 AM

monogamy is real easy if you do ont ehing

stay away from women that have been drinking !

that means bars, parties, clubs, etc.

floatingslowly 05.14.2008 09:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Rob Instigator
stay away from women that have been drinking !


that might be unpossible!!

sarramkrop 05.14.2008 09:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rob Instigator
monogamy is real easy if you do ont ehing

stay away from women that have been drinking !


HAHA! Yes, because they're obviously so much of a threat to men having a night out.

!@#$%! 05.14.2008 09:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Rob Instigator
monogamy is real easy if you do ont ehing

stay away from women that have been drinking !

that means bars, parties, clubs, etc.


my past breaches of monogamy have been always of the sober kind--- that is if you don't count deranged hormones as a drug! lust is more powerful than pretty much anything else on this planet.

i used to be a serial monogamist. but see when you start living with someone & signing leases & such it's harder to make such clean breaks. and so i was led by my penis in a few occasions. shit happens.

Everyneurotic 05.14.2008 11:12 AM

haven't.

charles eugene 05.14.2008 11:22 AM

i think i would have the biggest knot in my stomache for the rest of my life if did that to my girl. even if we broke up afterwards i would still feel like shit

!@#$%! 05.14.2008 11:26 AM

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Originally Posted by charles eugene
i think i would have the biggest knot in my stomache for the rest of my life if did that to my girl. even if we broke up afterwards i would still feel like shit


usually such events occur during the dying phase of a relationship-- sort of like a wake-up call.

my pattern used to be 6 months of honeymoon insanity, 6 months plateau, 6 months to break up. later as things went past that length of time the temptations were stronger. though it's happened as soon as 6 months into catastrophic relationships.

anyway, i don't recommend people follow my example or anything. it's just my contribution to the board's frequent confessional threads and in these matters i'm not embarrassed of telling it like it was because i'm not "outing" anyone or their private information.

uhler 05.14.2008 11:27 AM

nope

atsonicpark 05.14.2008 02:28 PM

Nope, I've never cheated, but I've had plenty of offers, especially in the 5 years I've been dating my current girlfriend. Why wouldn't I do it? Sex isn't that important to me, first of all. I like a good blowjob, but my girlfriend's great at that! Plus, who else would stick their fingers in my ass? Also, my girlfriend talks dirty to me, and the specific phrases she uses.. no one else could use some of those phrases.. you know? She's so good at it. Oh, and I love her.

I have been cheated on. I dated a girl for 9 months and I wouldn't fuck her and she gave this dude who was 4 years older a handjob and expected him to fuck her but he never did. And then she put me down and said I was this awful person for months and then he told me she cheated with him, which she'd never tell me, so I told everyone and everyone thinks she's the most worthless person ever. Ah high school.

But, no... I'd never cheat. I'd just break up with my girlfriend if I felt the urge to cheat.

atsonicpark 05.14.2008 02:29 PM

I will say I'm friends with a total scumbag who has cheated on his girlfriend of 4 years with 7 women. He has fucked 42 chicks altogether, and he always brags about it.

And.. actually.. come to think of it.. almost every dude I know has cheated on his long term girlfriend at least once... not me though. Fuck it. I'll watch porn.

uhler 05.14.2008 02:38 PM

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Originally Posted by atsonicpark

But, no... I'd never cheat. I'd just break up with my girlfriend if I felt the urge to cheat.


that's how i feel. even when i was dating my last ex, who was a thousand miles away, i still wouldn't have cheated on her. people would always say stuff like well you know what they say about girls in different area codes. i just have too much respect for the other person to cheat on them.

atsonicpark 05.14.2008 02:42 PM

Oh.. Hey pauly, if you're reading this.. I should just PM this but fuck it.. that LARGE MOUND shit is amazing!

Green Magnesium 05.14.2008 08:59 PM

My current boyfriend and I have known one another for nearly 10 months and have been a couple for 8 months. When him and I met in school (in a class actually) we were both casually dating/fooling around with other people. Then, after hanging out and sleeping together for about a month, him and I made the decision to see one another exclusively. At that point we both proceeded to stop seeing the others we were fooling around with.

All went well for about six months until he hooked up with some guy he claims he wasn't even attracted to while I was out of town. He broke down like a baby the next day and told me. The truth is, he could have gotten away with keeping it from me, but he sucked it up and was honest. He's been completely adoring and devoted ever since. Truth is I love him, and I respect him for being honest with me.

As for me, other than fantasies and porn, I have been faithful and will continue to be faithful.

EMMAh 05.14.2008 09:51 PM

I haven't.

My friend was unfaithful last night with a 32 year old married man. She's pretty damn caught in her lie right now, and she can bite my behind cause she's being a self centered cunt.
I would tell her that but I'm not involved, nor do I want to be.

atsonicpark 05.14.2008 10:12 PM

EMMAh's hardcore!
EMMAh's hardcore!

EMMAh 05.14.2008 10:15 PM

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Originally Posted by atsonicpark
EMMAh's hardcore!
EMMAh's hardcore!


Hardly

!@#$%! 05.14.2008 10:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by EMMAh
I haven't.

My friend was unfaithful last night with a 32 year old married man. She's pretty damn caught in her lie right now, and she can bite my behind cause she's being a self centered cunt.
I would tell her that but I'm not involved, nor do I want to be.


she's your age?

sounds like she has daddy issues.

EMMAh 05.14.2008 10:19 PM

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Originally Posted by !@#$%!
she's your age?

sounds like she has daddy issues.


She does man, I've said it for years.

EDIT: If you knew the drama that's going along with this action of hers, you would laugh. It's dumb on sooo many levels.

!@#$%! 05.14.2008 10:21 PM

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Originally Posted by EMMAh
She does man, I've said it for years.


oh.

well that's not going to get cured with morality lectures. it's more deep rooted than that.

best thing you can do is laugh at her, i guess, ha ha ha--

!@#$%! 05.14.2008 10:24 PM

does anyone remember amy fisher?

--

more better :D

✌➬ 05.14.2008 11:35 PM

Yes, with this cute 18 year old. That was a long time ago.

Everyneurotic 05.14.2008 11:52 PM

i got cheated on, it wasn't fun.

✌➬ 05.15.2008 01:28 AM

I regret doing it. There is no good excuse for it, even though at the time I felt neglected by him. If I have to repeat the scene again I would not do it.

Torn Curtain 05.15.2008 10:31 AM

No (edited because of unintended possible puns...).


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