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Originally Posted by amerikangod
And therein lies your problem. If you focus on it, if you desperately try to will it, it is guaranteed to never happen.
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exactly. its like dropping acid, you can't spend the first 45 minutes anticipating, desiring for and even imagining the trip, you just have to let shit hit you, and BAM .
in a related note I have only had a similar problem once, but it was not quite a feelingless orgasm as much as I honestly and openly was taking so damned long after over an hour I was desperately thinking about faking it? But how do you fake it as a guy? There is no way.. so I just balked, and took the shit or get off the pot attitude about it, so I had to just split.
I am surprised that amerikangod is the only dude who jumped in this thread, as it got ALL our regular ladies attention..
